Hi, my name is Debbie Hadgkiss. I'm a 55 year-old American female,currently in Hackettstown, United States, but I live in Newark, United States. I have 52 friends around the world.

Before you read the rest of my profile, I am NOT looking for a soul mate, permenant partner or to remarry (only dating locally near where I live, fun and friends) so please DON'T even bother communicating if that's what you are looking for. I also WILL NOT RESPOND to you if you have NO profile picture of yourself uploaded, only have generic/minimal information posted, speak about God. I believe in him but I don't need to hear how God fearing, etc. you are since that's a huge turn off to me. I'd also request that you please NOT call me "DEAR", "HON" or the like...

ABOUT MYSELF:
I'm a mother of three children and also have one grandson all currently living at home along with four dogs. One son (27 years old), daughter (23 years old), daughter (18 years old) and grandson (almost 2 years old). I survived and stayed in two long term marriages for all of the wrong reasons but, have lived, learned and grown since from these, other life events and experiences throughout my lifetime. I've also worked hard since a very young age and rarely ever made or had time for myself. In addition to working assorted jobs and babysitting when I was very young, I served 4 1/2 years in the U.S. Navy working in the personnel office at VT-23, Naval Air Station, Kingsville, Texas, 2 1/2 years working for Prudential Insurance Company in Parsippany, New Jersey and almost 20 years for AT&T working mostly for the International segment until my job was eliminated in June 2008. Now I'm working on trying to make new friends since I threw myself into my job and kids for so many years while also trying to enjoy and find myself again... I'm currently on permenant disability due to severe fibromyalgia and other health conditions. However, you would never know it for the most part if you met me due to my energy, positive attitude and zest for life. I hope to soon find a part time job in the community working with the elderly, less fortunate, at the hospital or something within the addiction field. In addition to working part time, I plan on taking medical billing or medical coding courses to eventually work from my own home.
My friends describe me as an attractive, compassionate, generous, humorous, intelligent, very outgoing and straight forward individual who is extremely loyal, trustworthy and fun to be around. I'm also very confident, energetic, EXTREMELY intuitive, sincere, and spontaneous and enjoy making people smile or laugh. Cheaters, dishonesty, people that think that they are better than you and people that are always complaining or negative repulse me.
I'd like to meet basically anyone that is interested in anything that I am or anyone that just needs/wants to communicate or expand their mind with me.